I think the verse you’re referring to is Leviticus 19:28 . The issue there with tattoos is the association with pagan rites. People back then would put tattoos on themselves to show allegiance to a false god or even for superstitious reasons. If you are planning on getting a tattoo to show allegiance to something that could be a false god or inappropriate affection, then getting a tattoo would not be the wisest thing (putting it mildly). Oh, let me say it straight-out: Don’t get that kind of tattoo if you want to honor God.

But what if the tattoo is a word or verse in the Bible or a symbol that is God-honoring? If this is the situation, I do not believe a case can be made biblically that would prohibit you getting a tattoo.

The issue then would be one of your personal judgment. One common sense issue is that many people, after getting tattoos, later wish they hadn’t. It’s hard to know how you will look as you get older – and whether the symbol in the tattoo will always be so important to you that you want it permanently on your body.

But, the main issue you ask about is one involving relationship. What if someone disapproves? For me, my wife Chris has never liked the thought of me having a tattoo. This is how it is for you with your father and perhaps with other loved ones whom you respect and seek to honor. At your age and in your situation as a married man, your key relationship is now to your spouse rather than your parents. As the Bible puts it: You have a new next of kin to whom you must “cleave” after you get married. I may issue a stronger warning to you if you had written, “My wife hates the idea!”

So, I think it is wise to ask whether your loved ones’ approve of you getting a tattoo. This could be a parent, a spouse, or even a best friend. It’s always good to seek counsel from people close to you. But, I believe you have the freedom biblically to get the kind of tattoo you ask about. Of course, you will have to be prepared to accept the disapproval from some cherished friends and family members. If you choose to get that tattoo and you want to maintain a warm relationship with your father, you'll have to assure him (and perhaps other loved ones) that you still honor them and that this is not a rejection of them as people. Personally I was not able to accept the idea of my wife’s disapproval of me getting a tattoo. So, obviously, I never got one.

Please know that the decision to get a tattoo is a matter of trying to make good decisions – before the Lord. I love your desire to do what is biblical, loving, and right. You have freedom to go either way as I understand Scripture. I hope this is helpful to you.

To His Glory,

Dr. Greg Waybright
Senior Pastor